The Four of Cups also carries the theme of regret and disillusionment. It is important to be open to new experiences and to not let negative thoughts and emotions cloud our judgment. This card suggests that we may be refusing offers or missing opportunities that could bring us happiness and fulfillment. The figure on the card is shown sitting and contemplating three cups in front of them, seemingly oblivious to the fourth cup that is being offered to them by a divine hand. It may indicate that we are feeling dissatisfied, apathetic or unfulfilled, even though we may have opportunities and blessings that we are taking for granted. The message is very simply: be thankful for what you have and don’t waste your life worrying about what you don’t have.The upright Four of Cups is a card that encourages us to reflect on our current emotional state and take stock of our life’s direction. Any job you take does not have to be permanent it can be simply a stepping stone. This card suggests that you are being a little too picky and that you should consider more fully what is available rather than what isn’t. If you are looking for a job and are struggling to find what you want then it will benefit you to reassess the parameters of what you are looking for. It’s no good obessing over how things would be if you were in your perfect job because if you don’t have the wherewithal or opportunity to find it then the path you are on is a very negative one.Ī very wise lady – Mary Engelbreit – once said… “If you don’t like something, change it if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” The 4 of Cups is telling you to do just that. If you are in a job that is leaving you unfulfilled and boring you to tears then this card is a pointed reminder to be thankful for what you have. You need to appreciate what you have in the present to make further progress in the future. It is time to rethink where you are and where you should be going. There is an element of “poor, poor, pitiful me” involved and you need to change this. The chances are you are heading in the wrong direction at present. Embrace the difference between you because that is where the true strength of a partnership lies. When this card appears though it implies that you are trying to change them for reasons that only suit you rather than them. Sometimes, that attempt to change them may be justified for their own good. If you are in a committed relationship the appearance of the two of cups will almost certainly mean that you are trying to change your partner in some way because they don’t match up to your idea of who you think they should be. The longer you make your list of attributes you want in a partner the less chance you have of finding them. There is no such thing as an ideal man or an ideal woman. It is all well and good having an ideal partner in mind but if you are not very careful you will end up lonely and alone. If you are looking for love this card is a reminder that Prince Charming on a white horse does not exist. This page/post may contain affiliate links and we may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you if you should click on one of those links. They have the very same right and you should be mindful that just because their way isn’t your way doesn’t mean they are wrong. You have the right to live your life the way that you want to. The 4 of Cups is a warning that you may be trying to get people to be who you think they should be rather than allowing them to be who they are.
You may think that you are justified but the truth may be somewhat different. Most times friends and family are close enough to you to be able to take constructive criticism if it is justified. This is a time that you need to be careful about what you say and how you say it. Don’t overlook what you have by obsessing over what you don’t have. Its appearance is a gentle reminder that you are living in the here and now and that is where your main focus should be. Wishful thinking is all very well and to an extent there is no harm in it provided that you are not wishing your life away because of it. The 4 of Cups is a card that reminds you that what you have in the present should not be overlooked because you are too focused on the future.
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